Magnificient Indiaeryt

Those 3 weeks i had in India....All to the roots very memorable....

All the different emotions i felt...I feel different...

The trip taught me many things in life...

Survival of the fittest!!! I didn't know I was indeed capable of many things...

But the most memorable stories i would have would be the excellent darshan I had everywhere.....From temples, Gurdwara and the Buddhist Monastery...

I tend to be sad for the first few minutes for the long queues i had to wait... (thanks to the month of Puratasi & Navarathiri)

Eventually, I ask THEM why keeping this child of urs waiting for long...

Only to see the reason behind it after it all has ended...This child of yours never felt so blessed...It was as thought YOU have planned everything for me...I need to just WALK through the path YOU have already set...

Everything happens for a reason in life...This blessed child of your believe in it now...Miracle's do happen in life....Believe...

Oy!!!! Love at First Sight....

Love the drumming....Makes my legs move....


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Am totally lost listening to this tune.....not to mention the lyrics as well....Do wacth it!!!

KIKK

Shortly stand for 'Konchem Istham Koncham Kastam' a film i wanted to watch badly....An absolute entertainer...I totally loved it...

The script was very good... Touching script and scenes.....I can easily recall a few

1) I loved the part "she falls down with Siddu holding her....And says "Coz i trust in you"

2) The numerous fights they have due to some silly reasons....:P Or technically our tongue :P

3) The day siddu gets drunk and realizes it....and many more

The last movie that made an impact on me would be 'Ayakai Briyani'...This is another that made its impact too...A huge one too.....

"Men and their ego" :P

Highly recommended to be watched with your loved one...I hope the movie industry keep producing great films as these...


UDPATE: Am getting worried about the trip to India...I have plans yet....:(

A typical story of men....and their perception

Book Source: Men are from Mars Women are from Venus....by John Gray
I didn't manage to complete this book long time ago...Have started reading it again....Highly recommended!!!!

An typical examples of how MEN do things.....

A week after our daughter Lauren was born, my wife Bonnie and 1 were completely exhausted.

Each night Lauren kept waking us. Bonnie had been torn in the delivery and was taking painkillers. She could barely walk. After five days of staying home to help, I went back to work. She seemed to be getting better. While 1 was away she ran out of pain pills. Instead of calling me at the office, she asked one of my brothers, who was visiting, to purchase more. My brother, however, did not return with the
pills. Consequently, she spent the whole day in pain, taking care of a newborn.
I had no idea that her day had been so awful. When I returned home she was very upset. I misinterpreted the cause of her distress and thought she was blaming me.
She said, ʺIʹve been in pain all day.... I ran out of pills. Iʹve been stranded in bed and nobody cares!ʺ

1 said defensively, ʺWhy didnʹt you call me?ʺ
She said, ʺI asked your brother, but he forgot! Iʹveʹ been waiting for him to return all day. What am I supposed to do? 1 can barely walk. I feel so deserted!ʺ
At this point 1 exploded. My fuse was also very short that day. I was angry that she hadnʹt called me. 1 was furious that she was blaming me when I didnʹt even know she was in pain.

After exchanging a few harsh words, I headed for the door. I was fired, irritable, and had heard enough. We had both reached our limits. Then something started to happen that would change my life. Bonnie said, ʺStop, please donʹt leave. This is when I need you the most. Iʹm in pain. I haven ʹt slept in days. Please listen to me.ʺ I stopped for a moment to listen.

She said, ʺJohn Gray, youʹre a fair‐weather friend! As long as Iʹm sweet, loving Bonnie you are here for me, but as soon as Iʹm not, you walk right out that door.ʺ
Then she paused, and her eyes filled up with tears. As her tone shifted she said, ʺRight now Iʹm in pain. 1 have nothing to give, this is when 1 need you the most. Please, come over here and hold me. You donʹt have to say anything. I just need to feel your arms around me. Please donʹt go.ʺ

I walked over and silently held her. She wept in my arms. After a few minutes, she thanked me for not leaving. She told me that she just needed to feel me holding her. At that moment I started to realize the real meaning of loveunconditional love. I had always thought of myself as a loving person. But she was right. I had been a fair‐weather friend. As long as she was happy and nice, I loved back. But if she was unhappy or upset, I would feel blamed and then argue or distance myself. That day, for the fast time, I didnʹt leave her. 1 stayed, and it felt great. I succeeded in giving to her when she really needed me. This felt like real love. Caring for another person. Trusting in our love. Being there at her hour of need. I marveled at how easy it was for me to support her when 1 was shown the way.

How had I missed this? She just needed me to go over and hold her. Another woman would have instinctively known what Bonnie needed. But as a man, 1 didnʹt know that touching, holding, and listening were so important to her. By recognizing these differences I began to learn a new way of relating to my wife. 1 would have never believed we could resolve conflict so easily.

Enlightment...

I saw the enlightenment in life.....
Thanks to meeting this new GURU in my life.....

I understand something happens for a good reason....
You are tested to the best of your abilities to face a situation....

I see the true power of the ONE....
How he plays the plot....Planned very well.....

I had no reason to be upset...Neither any emotion too.....
It was good that it all happened...

Now my journey to HIM seems to be much easier....
No desires in life.....Of meals, clothing, property or even girls....
It's just a body without a soul.....

May i have a place in YOUR heart....

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This is a personal post...Do ignore...

Everything went well until IT happened...Whom am I to spoil the event further. I had done my job. No extra additional job. Was no longer needed around anyway. Plus, i had no emotions at all. The lifeless feeling you get every time it happens.
Being around would only make things worse....

Next i know....

I kept driving.Until i saw HIM at the side of the road.HE sat comfortably at the junction of the road around that housing areas. The familiar sight...EXCEPT this was night and without a person...

Hmmmm.He didn't give me any usual vibes.
"So even you are playing with me?" i said....
When it didn't matter after all that? Why now?

Sat for a good few hours looking at each other before i got a message when it was over. Drove back to pick up Uma, Shar and Pavi. Didn't notice the presence anymore... I passed by that house and saw the car back home. I was less worried.

It was pass 1 o clock when we reached uma's house...Plus 130 when i reached home...Had some mixed feeling...But i somehow slept well..I believe its the tired feeling for the hardwork for all those previous days...

Anyway, I hope C1/07 enjoyed the night...It was a night to remember you guys...Take care...Do keep in touch!!!

Book: Men Primer

Had a very funny gutsy feeling within in...
I feel like its repeating itself yet again...

So i ended up reading both these books...'MEN PRIMER' & 'WOME PRIMER'

An interesting except (which is true for me)

"Men like to be appreciated for what they do and for who they are. They want to have your respect. They care if you like them or not. They would really like it if you loved them.
There is one just more thing. Men need to be needed. They like to feel useful. It is part of that providing instinct they have. Letting them do things for you, instead of leaping up and doing them for yourself, will help fulfill this need. Always show some appreciation for their efforts. It is only polite after all."

Memories...hmmm.....

Graduation Dinner

Its been a torture for the past few days....but at the same time hilarious and fun....

Things you look back and laugh at yourself...

You know you been part of the finale of the ENDING!!!


It been painstaking to put all things together...
The amount effort done by the committee members to make this a success...
All those horror stories from the committee member....
The painful sore wrist and blistered due to 'repeated' clickings...
The sleepless night to complete the task given....
Those painstaking hours to burn 100 DVD (Since IMU havent invested in a proper DVD duplicator) *shock*
All those effort rolling, placing, etc etc :P...Lolz....
*at times I do regret for being part of the one further supporting the idea* LOLZ!!!

Tmr would be THE day!!! lolz....But what's the significance of it...
We carry a whole new burden....A whole few different meaning...
The responsibility...Hmmm....Need i meantion more...

I hope we all enjoy ourself tmr...May this memories stay and do not fade...Special thanks to the Grad Dinner comittee....headed by our great Gordy.....special thanks to the great IT support from Chern Wey, FengY and also Zhi Yong....Without them, the night would have been tearless and emotionless!!! Every effort put in by each one of us...C1/07...You will be indeed remembered...